For five years, my husband’s family made me eat holiday dinners alone. My MIL said, “Farm girls don’t belong at a proper table
“You understand, Cassandra? It’s just easier.” On the card table, there was a paper napkin instead of linen. A single plate that didn’t match the Hartwell china. A water glass from the everyday set. And through the wide doorway, on the long table where the family sat, I could see the butter dish, pale gold,…