A Small Gesture That Changed My Day, Restored My Faith in Kindness
It had begun simply, almost too quietly, that Christmas morning.
The world seemed to stop as snow covered the streets outside the café.

The majority of folks were at home with their loved ones, watching classic holiday films and opening gifts.
In contrast, I was behind the counter preparing lattes for the few people who happened to drop in.
I had previously worked on Christmas projects, so it wasn’t new to me, but this year it felt more significant.

Perhaps it was the loneliness of watching people come and go as I remained behind the counter, trying to smile, or perhaps it was the pain of missing my parents across the nation.
A man entered at about nine in the morning.
He was older, with a scarf that appeared to have seen many winters and silver hair that peeked out from under a wool cap.

With a gentle smile, he placed an order for a black coffee.
Not very fancy.
His voice was pleasant yet tired as he spoke courteously while I poured.
He retrieved a solitary dollar from his coat pocket and left it on the counter as a tip when I handed him his cup.

Even though it wasn’t much, I thanked him and smiled.
Then, when I was clearing the counter, I saw a tiny piece of neatly folded paper nestled behind the dollar note.

At first, I assumed it was a scrap or a receipt and didn’t give it any thought.
After slipping it into my apron pocket, I continued my morning hustle.
Hours went by.

I cleaned tables and restocked the pastry case for the most of the afternoon as the café remained sluggish.
The silence had begun to weigh heavily on me by the time three o’clock rolled around.
I had the impression that everyone else was living, laughing, and rejoicing somewhere else, and I was just… there.

My fingers brushed the folded paper I had forgotten about when I reached into my apron to retrieve a pen.
I took it out out of curiosity.
Bright, crayon-drawn snowmen that were joyful, clumsy, and childlike appeared on one side.

One snowman wore what appeared to be a red baseball cap, and there were stick arms and irregular orange triangles for noses.
It was a cute drawing that you could put on the door of a refrigerator.
That day, I smiled for the first time.
However, I froze as I flipped the paper over.
“You’re doing great,” someone had written in meticulous, looping calligraphy.

That was it.
Only three easy words.
However, they struck me like a tsunami.
I’m not sure why, perhaps because it had been weeks since I’d heard anything encouraging or pleasant.
Perhaps because I was doubting myself more than I wanted to acknowledge.

Perhaps because it seemed as though those words, written by a stranger, were intended only for me.
I took a seat and held the small sketch for a while.
The coffee maker’s murmur subsided into the distance.
I considered that man—how he had most likely received the drawing from his grandchildren and decided to share it rather than retain it.

Perhaps he had once been in my shoes.
Perhaps he simply understood what it felt like to be invisible.
It felt different for the remainder of the day.
Each customer’s arrival and departure felt more like an opportunity to connect than a transaction.
I laughed naturally, smiled sincerely, and put the snowman drawing in my wallet as I was finishing up that evening.
Years later, it’s still there, albeit faded and with somewhat muted crayon colors.
But each time I see it, I’m reminded that generosity doesn’t have to be extravagant.
Sometimes it’s a simple letter left for someone you’ll never see again, or a silent message written beneath a dollar bill.

That man had no idea how much that simple act of kindness meant to me.
Since then, though, I’ve left my own letter on a napkin, beneath a bill, or occasionally scrawled on a coffee sleeve for every Christmas.
Words that never change: “You’re doing great.”

Because they could be just as important to someone else as they were to me.
