Woman’s Infidelity In Marriage: Wife Cheats To ‘See If She Still Had It’
In February, a distressed man shared on Reddit that his 10-year marriage was shattered when his wife confessed to cheating during a weekend trip. The 39-year-old husband, hurt by multiple encounters, contemplates divorce, seeking advice online. Redditors overwhelmingly support his decision, emphasizing the breach of trust and advising him to prioritize his well-being and move on from the betrayal.
Late in February, a man who was eager for help posted his story on the “Am I Wrong” thread about his unhappy situation with his cheating wife.
The 39-year-old guy gave Redditors some background by saying that he and his 33-year-old wife have been married for 10 of the 14 years they’ve been together. They have a seven-year-old girl together.
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He says that his wife went on a weekend trip with her sister and a few other girls to an adult-only party at a lodge where they drank a lot.
“I wasn’t scared at all. The original writer (OP) says, “I have never had a reason to doubt her; she has never done anything to make me worry.”
The author says that his wife called him in the morning, crying and unable to speak clearly, after the girls’ first night away.
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“She told me she slept with someone else the night before after I finally calmed her down.” “Perhaps she met a guy and approached him. They flirted a bit and danced together, and she thought that was the end of it,” writes her husband.
“But he was said to have just charmed her into kissing him, which turned into making out, which turned into her asking him to walk her back to her hotel, which turned into them having sex.”
He says this happened more than once and that her guilt made her stop, but it wasn’t enough to stop her from starting again, five times, to be exact.
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The OP writes, “She says she kept thinking ‘it was wrong,’ but then she’d think ‘it’s too late now anyway, so might as well carry on,’ and go through a loop of that.” She also told the “handsome man,” who was about 10 years younger, that she was divorced.
The OP writes, “She says she doesn’t know what hit her; she just wanted to “see if she still had it” but went too far.”
Adding, “It made her ego go crazy, and that’s when she chose to kiss him.” The man asked his wife why she needed to show herself that “she still had it.” He wanted to know why she felt this way.
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“She says she’s been self-conscious about her age since she turned 30. That something makes her cry every time she sees a new wrinkle. She told him that talking to him made her feel young again, which he liked.
The woman lied to her sister while they were in the same room, as well as abusing her husband and the stranger about her marriage status.
Her sister spent the night in another room with the girls because she said she needed to sleep. The wife then brought the stranger back to her bed without knowing it.
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It looks like they didn’t even know she went home with him. “They saw them talking but didn’t think anything of it,” he writes, adding that her sister is calling him because she is so mad at what she did and found out the wife was kicked out of the house.
As he deals with the pain of her cheating, he tells her, “I just want them all to leave me alone.” “I want to leave her,” he writes. She’s pleading with me not to, offering marriage counseling, telling me I should never go out or drink again, etc.
I’ve never been the type to take more than one shot. ”When he told his mother what had happened, she told him to “forgive her.”
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He still doesn’t know what to do, though. “While I decide what I want to do, she stays with her mother.” She begged me not to send her away, but she did when I told her it was the least she could do after making a big deal out of silly wrinkles.
The OP asks Redditors for help by saying, “I feel like I’m going crazy.” Am I wrong to not even think about forgiving her?”
People on the Internet jumped in to help and give tips about the bad scenario. “You’re not wrong.” “It’s not worth it if a few drinks and a cute guy were all it took to get her to end her relationship and leave her family,” writes one.
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Another person agrees and says, “You’re not wrong; she broke your trust.” Will she do this again every time she goes somewhere? She told you she had sex with him more than once, so it wasn’t just once.
“Say goodbye and move on,” says a third. As you said, she went after him. If she was that careless, it’s likely not a one-time thing; she mistreated your marriage, and she even lied about the status. Cheating for hours is not a past “mistake.”
Finally, the man says he’s “still reeling” and that his daughter is safe because she thinks “mummy is still on vacation.”
“She told the stranger that she was getting a divorce.” “It’s time to divorce her and treat her like a real woman,” says someone else on Reddit.
