Dad’s Strange Soap and Cold Shower Rule — My Boyfriend Walked In and Broke Down in Tears

Dad Told Me to Take Cold Showers with the Soap He Gave Me — When My Boyfriend Walked into My Bathroom, He Started Crying

Amelia never imagined her father’s motives were wicked or covert when he handed her a soap bar and instructed her to use it for cold showers. Her lover revealed the horrific reality about that soap opera, and it completely turned her world upside down.

Even though I’ve always been my father’s little girl, saying those words makes me feel sick to my stomach. He’s not the man I’ve always thought he was, and I’m not his little girl. I’ll explain why.

I mean, my father and I have always been really close. Dad never wanted me to move out, so up until a month ago, I, a 23-year-old, lived with my parents.

I had my bedroom and bathroom on the second story of the house, which dad had given to me. I owned the two rooms in the house by myself. Until the day Dad started complaining, they were my safe haven.

My father is one of those individuals that has a coconut-like demeanor. You know, with a hard exterior and a soft interior. He is an excellent father because he is empathetic in addition to adhering to rigid rules and standards.

He would frequently tell me that “character is built in discomfort.” “You gotta face the worst now if you want a life full of luxuries ahead.”

On bad days, though, he would also buy me chocolates and ice cream.

My mother, on the other hand, has always been a typical loving mother. She never refuses to make my favorite pasta when I ask her to, and she’s always up for an embrace or a kiss. She has always been charming.

But lately, I had the impression that my parents had changed. They had become aloof during the last few months, and the affection and concern had abruptly disappeared.

To be honest, there were moments when I thought I was living in a house with two strangers. We didn’t feel as though we were connected as before.

Then Dad started making pointless objections and nitpicking.

“You and your friends were too loud last night!”

“You’re staying out too late, Amy.”

“You’re spending too much on unnecessary things!”

Then the complaint surfaced, which truly made me lose trust in myself.

“You smell horrible, go take a cold shower and use the soap I gave you!”

I have a terrible smell. How come? I pondered. From where did that originate?

On that day, my father gave me this soap, which I had never seen before. Dad had instructed me to use a chunky, green soap bar that smelled a little odd, but he said it would help get rid of the bad body odor.

I was so self-conscious after hearing his statements that I had even stopped seeing Henry, my boyfriend.

I would frequently catch myself sniffing my hair, skin, clothes, and even breath to see what was bothering my father so much when he was around me.

I heeded his advise and started using the soap every time I had a shower. Or, to put it another way, I bathed five times a day solely to use that soap and eliminate the stench that seemed to be tormenting my father.

I washed my skin so vigorously I removed all the necessary moisture. My skin had started to appear so rough, scaly, and dry.

My father claimed that I still had a horrible onion odor at that point.

“Amy, did you use that soap? He would answer, “I don’t think you did.” “You smell so bad.”

The fact that my mother remained silent while my father humiliated me in such a way every day astounded me even more. She made no attempt to comfort me or to dissuade me from being so severe on myself.

I had always been close to my mother. Since I was a child, she was the one person I shared anything with. Every time I had a new crush on someone, a new relationship, or even just new vocabulary from school, I would tell mom about it.

She avoided eye contact and stood calmly while Dad continued questioning me, something I found unbelievable. I will never be able to forgive my mother for abandoning me when I most needed her.

I continued to shower with the soap, and because I was taking so many showers, my clothing were always sticking to me.

In addition, I started avoiding my dad. Every time he came home from work, I would always duck up to my room and shut the door. I wished for him to not see me. or smell me more precisely.

The moment my boyfriend Henry arrived was pivotal. After a few months of dating, he was the only thing making my increasingly miserable days better.

Henry has consistently been the encouraging partner we all seek after. He’s been nice to me always, and that day he came over since he saw that I hadn’t been seeing him.

He grabbed me by the arms and said, “Where have you been, Amy?”

“I used to be… Henry, I was just preoccupied with some things,” I pretended to smile. “I’m fine.”

“Are you serious? You don’t look good, my love,” he uttered.

I held Henry’s hand and murmured, “I’m okay, Henry.” “Tell me just one thing. Do I have an unpleasant odor?

Thinking I was kidding, he laughed.

“No, sweetie. You have a pleasant scent. Why not?”

“Not a thing. I simply…” I muttered. “Forget it.”

He said, “I’ll be right back,” and walked to the restroom.

I watched him leave the restroom a short while later, holding the soap bar. I could see he was not overly pleased with it.

“Who handed this to you? “Are you using this to take cold showers?!” he said, his eyes bulging.

How was this known to him? I pondered.

Yes, my father. Why not?” Doing my best not to freak out, I asked.

“It’s not like they told you! This isn’t soap, baby! It is used to remove grease and dirt from industrial machines.”

“Wait, what?” It stunned me.

“Amy, this thing is toxic. Burns from chemicals result from it.”

At that moment, I felt so betrayed and heartbroken that words cannot express. How could my dad harm me in this way? To his very beloved daughter?

That’s when I started to understand it all. The strange soap bar texture and the dry, itching skin. It also got me thinking—was my mother aware of this?

“I think we need to go to the hospital to get you checked,” Henry remarked. “We’re heading to the cops after that. Amy, this is abuse.

I halted him for reasons I cannot explain.

I couldn’t quite put the terms “abuse” and “Dad” together, even though I knew he was telling the truth. I didn’t think poorly of Dad, yet I didn’t like how those phrases made perfect sense and fit in the same sentence.

Put simply, I was unable to acknowledge my father’s attempt to harm me.

I said to Henry, “We can’t do that.” “We can’t go to the police.”

He questioned, “But why?”

I said, “I’ll explain that later.” “Just get me out of here, please. Later, I’ll speak with my folks.”

He accepted, and a few days later we moved into a modest apartment. Though small and basic in furnishings, it felt like a refuge in comparison to what I had been through.

It was then time for me to speak with my folks. The following day, I took a car back to their home.

When I got there, Mom was in the kitchen and Dad was in the living room, where he usually watched TV. Holding the soap bar, I entered and positioned myself in front of my father.

I held the soap bar high enough for him to see, saying, “I never thought you’d do this to me, Dad.” “This is poisonous. It is toxic. My skin was destroyed by it. Why did you act in this way?”

He smirked and said, “Oh, so you finally found what it is, huh?” “You needed to learn a lesson.”

“A lesson?” I chuckled. “You almost killed me. For what purpose? because you believed my fragrance was offensive?”

“Please stop this!” It was my mom who finally spoke up. “Amy, yo—”

“You knew, Mom, didn’t you?” I interrupted her. “You were a part of this ridiculous plan, right?”

Tears were streaming down her cheeks, but she remained silent.

“Why did you do this to me, Dad?” I went up to my dad. “I need to know!”

I wasn’t prepared for his answer. I had no notion that it would completely upend my world.

Speaking almost to himself, he asked, “You want to know why?” “All right. I had a little too much to drink on that vacation with your mother last year. After we arrived in a throng, a fortune teller informed me that your mother had cheated on you.”

“What are you talking about?” With a twist of my heart, I asked.

“That’s accurate,” he went on. “Your mother told me the truth when I confronted her the following morning. She declared that you were not hers. You are the outcome of her affair that she had while I was hardworking for us abroad.”

My mother was unable to look me in the eye when I did. Then I turned back to face Dad, who was still talking.

“Your mother begged me not to leave her because she didn’t want to break our family apart,” he shook his head. “Okay, I gave in. but with one caveat. She needed to pay, and you needed to too. since you aren’t my daughter.

That day, my heart broke into a million pieces. I was shocked to learn that my father had a darker side. The wicked mind that was so thirsty for unfair retribution.

“You mean that since you were upset with Mom, you gave me that poisonous soap? since you believed that I wasn’t your daughter?” My eyesight was blurry from weeping, so I asked.

He said, “You’re not my daughter,” and spun around. “You’re not my blood.”

I silently gazed at his back for a short while, wondering why he was punishing me for something that I hadn’t done.

“Okay, I’m through with you,” I murmured, wiping my tears from my eyes. “You’ll be hearing from my lawyer.”

And with that, I left the home that had served as my refuge. I went to the hospital several times for my skin treatment throughout the following few days, and I also spoke with my lawyer about how I may bring a lawsuit against my parents.

My father was soon notified about the restraining order and the upcoming legal action. That broke his arrogant self-confidence and left his reputation in shambles. His acts disgusted everyone in his circle.

Mom tried to contact me in the interim, but I didn’t return her calls or texts. Why should I even bother talking to her if she couldn’t stand up for me? I had finished.

I experience a sense of calm that has been absent from my life for a very long time now that I live with Henry. It seems like a long time ago that I last laughed so much at home. I’m very grateful to fate for sending me a man like Henry. Without him, I’m not sure what I would do.